Ethereum gas fees are unbearable!

I dont care how many ETH shills i trigger with this, but the fees are just unbearable!

How are you supposed to use it yourself, but also make it appealing to the public, if those fees are skyrocketing twice every month or so??
I just really need to get this of my chest because im so exhausted by me being nervous sending any ETH to anywhere. Always checking if i have enough for the gas fees too.

I dont know, maybe im overreacting, how does everybody else see it? Is there maybe even a solution to the problem already that i missed that makes ETH feeless?

Also sorry for my english, it isnt my first language.